My Best friend/s advice/s me!

 I am a woman...we all have relationship crisis/crises(more than one).

We go to our bestest friends.Friends who have nothing out of it, as in they don't benefit from any particular outcome.So,they give neutral third person opinion.

Because i am a woman, this time around, I  went to  male male best friends to find out the male perspective on this particular  issue..

Two male best friends and yet , Almost exact similar advice..

Sigh..Yet..I don't learn..coz my gut instinct asks me to get anxiety related arrhythmia by indulging in dangerous pursuits.So,I continue on, in spite of the advice they gave.

Nevertheless,here are nuggets of their advice>Just as a record for posterity..

Their names and real details of the whole issue have been withheld for the privacy of all parties involved.
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BEST FRIEND 1 ADVICES


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Best friend advice:"ya, you must've missed that memo, all guys are dogs" again,thanks for saying that.I didn't know ALL were.they are?
Me:BLAH
Best friend advice:"..dogs that chase after any tail they see!"

okaaay.I didn't know it was so grim.But really?I guess!

Me:BLAH
 Best friend advice:"....and he would've moved onto the next tail he saw walk past"
Again,thanks! I guess he would have!

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Best friend advice:"...one last time GET OVER IT.you're not perfect, you made a mistake!"

Me:BLAH BLAH BLAH (EXPLAINING SITUATION)Best friend advice:"...learn, move on.forget he even exists!"Okie, dokie,shall try!

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Best friend advice:"..no, you've finally learned something that most learn at 18-22.catching up!"

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Best friend advice:"..he wasn't in love with you.he was reaching.trying to see what he could get.just drop it, move on, learn from your mistakes."

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Best friend advice:"..get over that feeling.pride comes before the fall."

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Best friend advice:"..you now see the need for that attachment.never before have you seen that need.cause he couldn't get you.he wanted you only on his conditions"

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Best friend advice:"he might not have actually quit those things"

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Best friend advice:"best case scenario he falls in love with you, you fall in love with him, story over.worst case, you get there, he dumps you within two weeks"

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Best friend advice:"no need to waste more brain functions on him"

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Best friend advice:"keep striving for perfection.he wasn't perfection"

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BEST FRIEND 2 ADVICES


Me:BLAH BLAH BLAH (EXPLAINING SITUATION)
BMF ADVICES:what sort of drama? guy drama?

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BMF ADVICES: So now he'll have no girlfriends

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BMF ADVICES:lol no, but it happens allllllll the time.

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BMF ADVICES:why? there's nothing wrong with the story

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BMF ADVICES:it sounds like any normal drama story

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BMF ADVICES:lots of douche bag guys out there.

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BMF ADVICES:welcome to most men!

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BMF ADVICES:'Most' doesn't mean all

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BMF ADVICES:It's true though. Lots of men I know are jackasses.

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BMF ADVICES:I don't approve of most guys my friends date

 Me:BLAH BLAH BLAH (EXPLAINING SITUATION)
BMF ADVICES:I'm not saying women aren't guilty of the same behavior. I think it's becoming common in today's society

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BMF ADVICES:People are programmed to climb the ladder in their careers and in their life. Always upgrading, always looking for more.

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BMF ADVICES:sometimes a mess is worth cleaning up. Kinda like a run down house that needs a good renovation.

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BMF ADVICES:I can tell that relationship won't go very well.

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BMF ADVICES:yeah, I prefer to avoid other people's messes and clean up my own if I make a spill.

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BMF ADVICES:when people get too greedy, they lose everything.

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BMF ADVICES:sometimes it takes two hands to catch a falling/shooting star, and if you're busy catching one with another

Me:BLAH BLAH BLAH (EXPLAINING SITUATION)
BMF ADVICES:hand, you'll drop them both.

Me:BLAH BLAH BLAH (EXPLAINING SITUATION)
BMF ADVICES:well, it's stuff you already know., I just put it into words for you
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