conversations with best friends-About passive breaker-upper guys,NO THANKS REQUIRED

Disclaimer: I make a hundred percent effort to maintain my own privacy
and more so some of the real life people I might mention here to the
point where (unless you are the speaker of those words) you won't
recongnize who the speaker is (even BY IMPLIED IMAGINATION) .Also, the
reason why I quote some of those conversationsm is NOT FOR GOSSIP
purposes, but merely to SHARE AN IDEA, THE BEAUTY OF A CONVERSATION OR
BEAUTY OF FEELINGS SHARED during those conversations with people that
were or are close to me..
Here I am just posting excerpts from a conversation with a best friend
also whom i call my lil sister-let us call her Ms.funny, and I AM ONLY
POSTING WHAT I SPOKE, (withholding anything she might have said in
that conversation) just in an effort to protect her privacy.
here goes
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QUOTE(QUOTING MYSELF)
excerpt 1
Maybe he is one of those guys, who DOESN'T HAVE THE GUTS
TO BREAK UP RELATIONSHIPS on his own , but once he loses interest, HE
JUST DRAGS ON WITH IT and becomes passive in his responses to you till
you finally TIRE OF HIM and then break up with him.

excerpt 2
you know, some guys have problems breaking up straighforward, they
just tire you out by being like how he was, till you finally break
up..

excerpt 3
no thanks required..you were there for me back then and you know? back
then the one observation you made which was very HONEST was the most
useful to me,

you told me " maybe he really just LIKES ONLY TALKING TO YOU COZ YOU
SPEAK interesting stuff, mabye he never was intersted in you"

And i think, that was the eventual truth..that he liked LISTENING to
me all day say clever stuff...and nothing more and yes, some sexual
stimulation too ..(what he didn't know is that HE OWED SOMETHING back
to the person who would spend time and energy, entertaining him with
clever talk, emotional support and sexual fantasies...People like
taking and never giving back..)
And YOUR OBSERVATION back then really really helped me understand THAT
I MUST NOT PUT OUT THINGS FOR OTHER PEOPLE WHO DON'T OR WON'T GIVE
THINGS BACK TO ME...I need a person who gives me back in equal
measure..
So yeah...YOU DID SOME SISTERLY STUFF for me back then with very
honest advice and now, I TRIED being there when you asked me...so,
NO THANKS REQUIRED....:))))

UNQUOTE (UNQUOTING MYSELF)
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Sometimes, conversations and dialogues freeze our life moments and
serve much like a journal for reading later and for reminiscing
later.so yeah..which is why I am posting this blog.
please note that whenever you post someone else's words in your blog,
please ask their permission first and also please stop gossiping on
blogs like cheapsters..yeah?