love as an ALL OR NOTHING phenomenon,more pausch,and 80 hr jobs and conscience--October 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

love as an ALL OR NOTHING phenomenon,more pausch,and 80 hr jobs and conscience--October 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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Anyways..I thought quite a few times before actually finally deciding that no matter what..It is a good idea to lighten my conscience by writing this letter to you ..this letter might look intrusive, or funny or stupid and uncalled for..but seven years down the line.. this mail might make sense to you...

gosh...I know it is so tough to be alone amongst constant scrutiny and it gets tough to deal with it all alone..so sometimes we just choose to be with whoever is the best we can find, though we already know they are NOT the best of what we possibly need or want..but trust me..

Love is an ALL OR NOTHING phenomenon..Anything inbetween only causes misery..

Have some courage... I just dont want you to do the mistakes i once did ..coz I notice that your behaviour is very very uncannily similar to mine ..so much so that it spooks me..seriously !

I wish i lived in the same city as you , so that i could meet up with you ..As of now..that is not on the cards.80hrs a week is just too much already,travel and meeting up is just not an option...so ,, emails are what is feasible.

Anyways,

I am just attaching the RANDY PAUSH SPEECH IN PDF..JUST DOWNLOAD THE DOCUMENT AND SAVE IT .or atleast open it and read it...I kinda felt good reading it a while ago.

love and hugs.

A

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!!

sometimes i accuse MR.U of plagiarism...

you see, in october 2008, i wrote to him about this 'ALL OR NOTHING' phenomenon, and then one year down the line, he writes something very similar to this principle and earns tons of money out of it..

this happens a lot of the times.

I keep lecturing him on things, i write a lot of things on my blog and in my emails to him..and then, somewhere down the line, I SEE HIM writing something similar ..

I guess, he doesn't ACTIVELY CONSCIOUSLY TRY TO PLAGIARIZE..BUT..he INTERNALIZEs me and what I SAY to such an extent that he REGURGITATES IT at a later point

funnily, a lot of my other blog readers or friends or family end up doing this too..what? REPEATING 'MY' funny or clever lines as their OWN...

DON'T PEOPLE have the habit of QUOTING ? don't PEEPS have the habit of TRYING TO have some ORIGINAL THOUGHTS? come on!

Funny, at how CONCERNED i am of his welfare and emotional health IN THIS EMAIL...hmmmm..

But i MUST LET HIM GO OUT INTO THE WORLD ALONE AND LEARN THINGS WITHOUT MY CONSTANT COACHING from now ON.

now, he is on his own...no more emails, no more contact, no more advice..totally FIN.

promise TO MYSELF.

I JUST WANT HIM TO BE SAFE and sound mentally, is all.I WANT HIM TO DO WELL IN LIFE..i want him to be happy and JUST NOT FEEL ALONE .

HE WILL AND SHOULD PROTECT HIS OWN INTERESTS from now on...

hugs,kiss,WILL miss you .>BLOWS KISSES TO MR.U.